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Families, Guardians and Caregivers

Supporting someone you love without taking over their life

For parents, spouses, adult children, guardians, and caregivers. Assistive technology and support that keep everyone in sync and respect the person’s choices.

A team effort

Help without taking over

Families can

  • Plan and compare options
  • Share what they know about routines
  • Learn the tools alongside the person
  • Get updates the person agreed to
  • Work with case managers, with the person’s OK

The person decides

  • Their goals
  • What is shared, and with whom
  • Whether to use safety features
  • When to change their choices
  • Their voice in the plan, even with a guardian

What families run into

How we help your family

Tap what feels hardest.

The challenge

Too many options

Hard to tell what fits from what is marketing.

How we help
  • Plain-language guidance
  • We say when something is not a fit
Assistive technology overview →
The challenge

Everyone has a piece of the picture

Family, caregivers, and professionals each know something.

How we helpCare professionals →
The challenge

Routines that only work when you are there

The day runs well when you are around.

How we help
  • Reminders and picture schedules
  • Simple messages that keep helpers in sync
Enabling technology →
The challenge

Wanting to know, without hovering

You want reassurance. They want privacy.

How we help
  • Optional fall-related notifications, with the person’s agreement
  • Many families never use them
Privacy and choices →
The challenge

Needs that keep changing

Aging, a move, or a health change.

How we help
  • Training for the helpers the person picks
  • Follow-up as needs change
How it works →

Our clinicians work with the person’s therapists and care team. In Missouri, they also offer home modification evaluations and OT assessments. Ask about your state.

Only some families need this

Planning location awareness together

For someone who walks away when upset or sometimes gets lost. The goal is more freedom, not tracking.

  1. 1
    Listen to the personTheir walks, places, and limits.
  2. 2
    Agree on placesAreas that feel safe and familiar.
  3. 3
    Choose who is toldOnly the few who need it.
  4. 4
    Plan the responseWhat the family does if they can’t reach the person.
  5. 5
    Review togetherAs routes and confidence change.

Location awareness supports the family’s plan. It does not replace it.

Illustrative examples

Examples of family support

Made-up families. No result is promised.

Illustrative · Moving out

An adult child moving into their own place

  1. GoalKeep his routines while gaining independence
  2. ChallengeParents have run his reminders for years
  3. ApproachReminders he sets up with them, then takes over
  4. BenefitMore independence, a new role for his parents

He decides what updates, if any, his parents see.

Illustrative · Distance

Caring from another state

  1. GoalStay informed without intrusive daily calls
  2. ChallengeShe worries. He values his privacy.
  3. ApproachFall-related notifications and short summaries he agreed to. No cameras.
  4. BenefitBetter talks on his terms

He can change his choices anytime.

Illustrative · Safety plan

A son who sometimes walks away

  1. GoalKeep the walks he loves
  2. ChallengeLocked doors. He feels treated like a child.
  3. ApproachAgreed routes. Parents are told only if he leaves them.
  4. BenefitMore freedom, fewer locked doors

He helps set it up. It does not replace the family’s plan.

Working with us

What working with us looks like

Four steps. See how it works.

  1. 1
    Reach outYour role and situation. Keep it general.
  2. 2
    Map the teamThe person’s goals, and who helps.
  3. 3
    Explore options and fundingWhat may fit, and how to pay.
  4. 4
    Set up, train, follow upAround the person’s choices.

CompassCare, if it fits

Stay informed on their terms

The family and caregiver experience of the GMA MyCompass System. Not every family needs it.

CompassCare

  • Short summaries from Nora
  • Data, not cameras
  • Alerts that matter, not every data point
  • Each helper sees only what their role allows

See CompassCare and Nora Caregiver Intelligence.

Privacy and choices

  • Location is for safety planning, not tracking
  • Set up with consent, for a clear reason
  • Limited to the people who need it
  • Nora supports your judgment. It does not decide.

Technology supports people. It does not replace them. Security overview.

Paying for it

Funding paths families can explore

The person’s case manager is usually the best partner for waiver questions.

  • Medicaid waiverApproved provider in Missouri, Oklahoma, and Colorado.
  • TRICARETRICARE-authorized non-network provider, for military families.
  • Private payBuy equipment or tools directly.
  • Other pathsCase by case.

See the coverage map. The person’s program, plan, or payer decides coverage. We cannot promise funding, eligibility, or payment.

Questions families and caregivers ask

Can I contact you on behalf of someone I support?

Yes. Many talks start with a family member or guardian. We include the person’s own goals as we go.

Does supporting a family member mean setting up monitoring?

No. Many families use reminders, equipment, or talking tools only. If monitoring fits, it works from data, without cameras, and follows what the person is comfortable sharing.

My brother and I both help Mom. Do we see the same things?

Not always. Access is based on permission and each helper’s role, so the person who handles daily routines may see more than someone who helps now and then. Wherever your family member is able, they decide what is shared and with whom.

Can I see where my family member is at all times?

That is not how we work. Location awareness is set up for a clear safety need, like a history of getting lost. It is agreed on with the person and anyone legally authorized to decide with them. Access stays limited, and the plan is reviewed.

If an alert comes in at 2 a.m., who handles it?

Your family and the person’s caregivers or providers, following the plan you agreed on. GMA does not run a response center. We provide the tools, setup, training, and ongoing support, and help you decide ahead of time who checks in.

Let’s talk about what your family needs

Tell us about your role and what you hope to make easier. We will follow up with options that respect the person you support.

Talk About Your Family’s Support Needs

Please don’t include medical or other sensitive personal details in your first message.

Gray Matters Alliance
Gray Matters Alliance

Person-centered technology, equipment, services, and ongoing support. Every recommendation begins with the person.

Office: 122 S. Main St., St. Charles, MO 63301
Mailing: 119 S. Main St., St. Charles, MO 63301
314-266-2678
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